Hear from others we've helped

Boys

The volunteers at Victim Supportline talk to lots of people who need support or information after being affected by crime. They usually talk to people on the 'phone, but they can also answer emails.

Here are some examples of the sorts of worries that we've heard from young people. You're not alone, We've helped all these people and we can help you too, even if you just want to talk to us and get advice. All personal details in these examples have been changed to protect identity.

Age 13
"My mum and dad have been arguing a lot lately and I heard my mum scream and everything that was on the cooker was on the floor and my mum now has a very big burn on her arm. She will not go to the doctor and have it checked out and she won't talk to me about it. Please help, what should I do?"

Age 17
"People are saying that a boy I don't get along with too well is going to start on me on Friday night when I'm out with my friend. I don't know whether to go out and try and talk and take what is given, or to tell someone about my situation. What should I do?"

Age 14
"I turned on my 'phone this morning and had a message from this number slating me and saying I had better watch my back. Since then I've been getting loads more messages like it. I'm starting to feel really scared by it. My friend said I should just delete and ignore them. Should I take her advice?"

Age 10
"The other day when my mum and me came home we found the back door broken and the house was a big mess inside. Our house had been burgled and loads of stuff taken. They took our TV and my Playstation and all my Playstation games. I had to go round to my nan's while my mum called the police. When I got back the door had been fixed but ever since I have been feeling really scared about being at home, and I can't sleep very well at night. I'm scared they're going to come back. How can I feel better?"

If you've been a victim of a crime or you know someone who has and you're worried about these sorts of things, you can talk us.

Contact your local office,  call Victim Supportline on 0845 30 30 900 or email us at supportline@victimsupport.org.uk

All emails and replies will be kept private and will not be posted on this site.